“Cousin Jules” – a Movie For Meditation

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The ping of a hammer on steel is an unforgettable sound. I used to equate it with farriers, shoeing horses. When my son became an artisan blacksmith, I learned it is also the sound of hammering hooks, hinges and door handles. Upon hearing that a film called “Cousin Jules” was about a blacksmith, my husband bought tickets to a small viewing. I was tired, and part of me wished we had not committed to going out. By the end of the hour and a half, we were so refreshed and energized that we came home and sent and responded to emails until one o’clock in the morning! The next day, after less sleep than usual, we were still full of energy. What made the difference? Continue reading

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Rising with the Sap

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By the time you read this, the sap will have almost finished rising in the sugar maple trees. New England and Canada are the major producers of this sweet nectar. It takes approximately 40 gallons of sap to make 1 gallon of syrup. That’s why it’s called “New England gold.”  I first tapped maples and boiled sap at age 12, as a student at North Country School, near Lake Placid, New York. The trees, naked in the dawning of Spring, matched my youthful vulnerability. Continue reading

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The Power of Choice

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Whether you’re a Jew, Christian, Muslim, Agnostic or Pantheist, this is the season of birth and fertility. Today marks the first day of Passover, the Jewish people’s commemoration of their Israelite forbearers’ escape from the constrictions of slavery into freedom. It is followed five days later by Easter, a similar story about being unencumbered by the physical body. Continue reading

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We Are What We Wear…Or Are We?

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Birds display their plumage; so why shouldn’t humans? It’s a natural form of sexual attraction. But when we walk around with advertising on our clothing – from Polo shirts to Louis Vuitton handbags (which I had to look it up to be sure they still make them) – we are buying the appearance of wealth as a means of showing status and sex appeal. In a culture that worships money, paying more for a designer shirt presumably stimulates self-confidence and is more appealing than a plain one. Continue reading

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Tired of winter?
Keep your hats on!

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Last week in Washington, D.C., I met with a highly respected climatologist who’s a member of the National Academy of Sciences. Requesting anonymity, he reported new data suggesting that the polar ice cap is not shrinking, and is predicted to extend as far as Montreal and possibly through Vermont. This winter’s extended freeze is just a glimpse of what we can expect to see. The implications for birds and animals, not to mention humans, are surprising, if not disturbing. Continue reading

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How does your life help to remove the causes of war?

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Last week while walking with a friend along Embassy Row in Washington, D.C., a banner in front of a Quaker Meeting house stopped us in our tracks. I took the picture above to remember the words: “How does your life help to remove the causes of war?” I think about the people of Crimea, many of who wish to be reunited with their Russian roots, and others who are fearful of Putin’s invasion. Continue reading

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Surrendering

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I was sick with a virus last week. It made my brain fuzzy but I kept fighting my need to rest. Surrender does not come easily.

The first day of my not feeling well, I spent all day in bed at a friend’s house in southern Vermont, preparing a book talk while blowing my nose. I rallied for the talk and crashed after returning home. For the next two days I could not get out of bed. I haven’t been sick in two years, so I was not accustomed to lying still. I felt guilty that I was not doing emails, answering phone calls or writing my blog post. But I simply couldn’t think. Continue reading

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Lessons from my Cat

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The time came last week for us to euthanize our 17 year-old cat, Rusty. His kidneys had failed and his bladder ruptured. We did not wish to prolong his agony. It was a very hard decision for Paul and me, but his death taught us about a paradox of life, even as he died in our arms. Continue reading

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Birthday Musings

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What a wonderful thing it is to be born, to live, to savor all that is living alongside. On this special day of my birthday, I give thanks for my parents for having “the sixth.” It was not what she wanted, but I came anyway and they were glad ultimately, finding comfort in my ways. I found beauty in theirs, and later, love. I have lived into, worked for, and allowed love. Its reach is beyond anything I could have dreamed: My husband. My sons. My friends. They are the embers in the hearth of my heart. Continue reading

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Conversations from the Beach

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I was in Boca Grande last week, giving a book talk to benefit the Johann Fust Library Foundation. A dear friend of mine, who I had not seen in several years, joined me for the two nights. Each morning we walked along the beach, reaching down to pick up shells of interest, remarking at the school of 50 stingrays fluttering along the shoreline, while letting our conversation follow the drift of time. Continue reading

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